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Lily Decker

Lil-E Deck-er

She/Her

Mental Health Counselor
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Therapy Style

Calmly Challenging Collaborative Direct Trauma Informed Warm Somatic Aware

Languages Spoken

English

Expertise

Borderline PD Bipolar Eating disorders Cultural issues Autism Addiction ADD or ADHD Anger Management Grief Sex Sexual Trauma or Abuse Domestic Violence Suicidal Ideation PTSD Chronic Illness OCD Sleep Disorders Spirituality Body Dysmorphia Polyamory Postpartum Depression Adoption Racism Executive Function Oppositional Defiant Disorder Perfectionism Political Anxiety Climate Anxiety Social Anxiety Narcissistic Abuse Burnout Childhood Trauma Pmdd Self Harm Health Anxiety Phobias Infidelity Homicidal Ideation Psychosis Schizophrenia HIV/Aids
I offer a warm, empathic, and client-centered space where you can feel seen and supported. Drawing from DBT and somatic practices, I help you build tools while staying connected to your body and emotions. I believe we all have the power to discover who we are and what we want in our lives, relationships, and the world around us.
I am experienced in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), trauma-informed care, eating disorder treatment, and group therapy. My experience allows me to support clients in navigating complex emotions, building resilience, and fostering healthier relationships with themselves and others. I am dedicated to creating a safe, collaborative space where growth and healing can take place.

Education

M.S.Ed. in Mental Health Counseling, University of Miami

License #

NY MHC-LP #18-P139404-01 FL RMHC #IMH28727

Lily Decker

Lil-E Deck-er

She/Her

Mental Health Counselor
I offer a warm, empathic, and client-centered space where you can feel seen and supported. Drawing from DBT and somatic practices, I help you build tools while staying connected to your body and emotions. I believe we all have the power to discover who we are and what we want in our lives, relationships, and the world around us.
I am experienced in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), trauma-informed care, eating disorder treatment, and group therapy. My experience allows me to support clients in navigating complex emotions, building resilience, and fostering healthier relationships with themselves and others. I am dedicated to creating a safe, collaborative space where growth and healing can take place.

Education

M.S.Ed. in Mental Health Counseling, University of Miami

License #

NY MHC-LP #18-P139404-01 FL RMHC #IMH28727

Therapy Style

Trauma Informed Calmly Challenging Direct Somatic Aware Warm Collaborative

Languages Spoken

English

Expertise

Borderline PD Bipolar Eating disorders Cultural issues Autism Addiction ADD or ADHD Anger Management Grief Sex Sexual Trauma or Abuse Domestic Violence Suicidal Ideation PTSD Chronic Illness OCD Sleep Disorders Spirituality Body Dysmorphia Polyamory Postpartum Depression Adoption Racism Executive Function Oppositional Defiant Disorder Perfectionism Political Anxiety Climate Anxiety Social Anxiety Narcissistic Abuse Burnout Childhood Trauma Pmdd Self Harm Health Anxiety Phobias Infidelity Homicidal Ideation Psychosis Schizophrenia HIV/Aids
Q.

What are the words you live by?

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“Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are.” – Brent Brown

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